Understanding

So, i have been analyzing this in my head for months now.

If you have someone in your life that says they want you but not your life, how does that work?

I am a single mother of three children, ages 6,7 and 8. I am approaching my big 30 rather quickly. I have been married for 8 years and divorced for 4 now. I am to old to play the "DATING" game of having just fun right now.

I am ready for the oh so forbidden word "LOVE". And with that comes a future. My life consists of allot of fun but also allot of stress. Raising three kids is not an easy task and doing it alone is even harder. So yes, i am hoping for a partner in doing so for later on in life. It would be nice. Do i NEED that? No, i want that.....

This is my 'LIFE". So if someone says they want ME.. they need to want the entire package. And if they don't want that they can step.

Now that brings me to another subject that ties into it all. Two people fitting together and it just flowing. There is so much more to relationships then feeling good, being attracted to one another and the sex being phenominal.

Two people need to fit in each others lives, may it be economically, finacially, life style choices or other things. And if one of these catagories do not fit then it can and probably will not work. I can not be with someone that lives to drink/party/smoke weed/and play video games. That would just not FIT with my life. That does not mean i care any less about a person nor am i judging a person for being who they are. I am simply stating that it just does not FIT with my life.

So it is a two way street i guess, i want someone but not his life?